How to Impress a Girl

I have studied the interests and behaviors of women for quite some time. I have learned secrets that may be unknown to 999 out of 1000 people who read this blog. Why is it unknown? Most people do not think in that direction because this secret can be quite puzzling. Let me explain...

Personally, I believe that most men have a strong desire to impress women. When you observe how men behave and speak to women during their first meeting, or perhaps on their first date, you can see it. Maybe you have even done it yourself. Of course, I have observed many facts about this matter.

Here are signs that a guy is trying to impress a girl he likes:

1. He will try to share only things that are considered "cool" or that can "impress" the girl.
2. He is restless, thinking about whether his words are impressive.
3. He will try to find out what the girl wants to hear.
4. If he feels that the girl in front of him doesn't like it, he will backtrack and try to change his words to suit her desires.
5. He does not say anything "risky," does not joke, and does nothing to disappoint the girl.

In other words, when a guy talks to a girl he likes, he will put himself in his "best behavior" and usually try to "show his best foot forward". Or it could be said that guys tend to make the woman they like interested in them. And that tendency makes guys act unnatural or contrived. In fact, this is the first clue.

The secret is...

Remember how I mentioned at the beginning that I know a secret that may not be known by 1 out of 1000 people who read this blog? I will share this secret with you, my blog readers. This secret is about how to impress a woman. The answer is STOP TRYING TO IMPRESS A GIRL!

Why is trying to impress a girl deemed wrong? What's wrong with trying to impress a girl? Let me tell you. When you try to impress a girl, you are implicitly sending the following message to her:

1. I'm not sure if you like me for who I am, so I'm trying to impress you.
2. I'm not comfortable enough around you to be myself.
3. I lack experience with attractive women.
4. I don't feel secure with you.
5. I don't know how to make a girl feel comfortable around me.

 Wow, isn't it annoying? But this is true. Remember, once again I remind you that girls are skilled at reading body language. Once you try to impress a girl, you won't be able to act normal, your body language will be weird and your words won't sound natural. Girls know this, even before you realize it. So, stop trying to impress girls. Be natural with who you are. Let the girl be impressed on her own. That's it, the rest will be discussed another time.